Jennifer Lopez’s recent divorce from Ben Affleck has brought to light her extensive efforts to support him during their relationship. According to People, the 55-year-old actress and singer, who filed for divorce last week, spent considerable time managing Affleck’s moods and emotional state, often taking on a caretaker role.
Sources revealed that despite having a successful career and a family with ex-wife Jennifer Garner, Affleck struggled with frustration and mood swings. Lopez reportedly went to great lengths to ensure he was happy and content, to the point where some friends felt she was overly focused on his emotional well-being. “The way she cared for him was almost childlike,” said one insider, highlighting how their dynamic sometimes felt more like a parent-child relationship rather than that of partners.
Friends of Lopez advised her to step back, emphasizing that it was not her responsibility to manage Affleck’s feelings. Lopez, in contrast, is described as having a positive outlook on life, with a deep sense of gratitude, which was reflected in her home decor with the phrase “Gratitude Attitude.”
Another source noted that Affleck has historically struggled with stress and coping skills, often becoming easily frustrated and moody. When he is in a good mood, he is described as wonderful to be around, but his negativity can be overwhelming. The source added that small issues can sometimes escalate, affecting those around him.
Since their reunion in 2021 and subsequent marriage in August 2022, Lopez has maintained an exceptionally busy schedule. She starred in and produced several films, including Marry Me, Shotgun Wedding, The Mother, and Atlas. Additionally, she promoted her beauty line, launched new music, and engaged in various fashion and business ventures. Despite her demanding career, Lopez made considerable efforts to balance her professional and personal life, ultimately leading to sadness over the end of their marriage.
Affleck, on the other hand, appears content with his current status. He is thriving in his work projects and spending quality time with his children. Upcoming for Lopez is the promotion of Affleck’s film Unstoppable at the Toronto International Film Festival, where she will continue to support his professional endeavors.
