Key Point Summary – Whitney Purvis missed son’s funeral
- Whitney Purvis allegedly missed her son’s funeral due to a timing mix-up
- Weston Jr., age 16, died unexpectedly of natural causes
- Whitney and Weston Sr. dispute what time the service was scheduled
- Whitney claims she was denied access; Weston Sr. says she arrived late
- The service had a strict guest list, but some of her family were let in
- Emotions erupted over texts following the locked chapel doors
- A separate urn was gifted to Whitney by Weston Sr. and Amy Gosa
Reality Star’s Grief Overshadowed By Funeral Controversy
Whitney Purvis, best known from the first season of MTV’s 16 and Pregnant, is now caught in a heartbreaking dispute surrounding the funeral of her 16-year-old son, Weston Owen Gosa Jr., who tragically died earlier this month.
The emotionally charged situation has sparked bitter accusations, with both parents offering conflicting accounts of what happened the day their son was laid to rest.
Whitney announced her son’s passing on Facebook with heartbreaking words: “My beautiful son, Weston, has passed away. He was only 16 years old. Life is so cruel and unfair.”
Funeral Miscommunication Sparks Family Rift
According to sources close to Whitney, she was not allowed into the chapel after showing up late, reportedly due to misinformation about the funeral’s start time.
Whitney claims she was told by Weston Sr. that the service began at 4 p.m., only to be informed upon arrival that it had started at 2 p.m. Her entire side of the family was also allegedly denied entry.
But Weston Sr. disputes this, insisting he made it clear that the viewing was at 2 p.m. and the service would start promptly at 4. He says Whitney showed up after 4:15, by which point the chapel doors were locked and the service was underway.
Text Messages Turn Ugly
Things escalated quickly. Weston Sr. claimed that Whitney began texting him around 5:10 p.m., accusing him of being “evil” for excluding her. He responded with a photo showing that she was on the guest list.
Despite the tension, Weston Sr. and his current partner Amy Gosa decided to gift Whitney a separate urn containing some of Weston Jr.’s ashes, citing compassion during this painful moment.
Sudden Death Rocks Both Families
Weston Jr. was found unresponsive on June 2 at the family’s Georgia home. His stepmother, Amy, wrote: “We got up this morning around 7 a.m. and tried to wake him up—he was not breathing.”
She described their attempts at CPR and the rushed trip to Gordon County hospital, where he was pronounced dead. The death certificate listed “natural causes,” though the teen had suffered from several health conditions, including diabetes.
MTV Star’s Public Mourning
In her public posts, Whitney wrote raw, tearful messages filled with grief. “This is really my worst nightmare come true… I just can’t go on without you.”
She continued: “You are gone too soon. April 2, 2009 – June 2, 2025.”
The pain radiated from her words, giving followers a glimpse into a mother’s devastation after losing her firstborn.
A Complicated Past Resurfaces
Weston Jr. was born during Whitney’s time on 16 and Pregnant, and his short life played out under the shadow of his parents’ turbulent relationship.
The couple had a second son, River, in 2014 before breaking up. Whitney eventually lost custody of both boys. Legal troubles followed: she was arrested last year for failing to pay child support.
Weston Sr. also had run-ins with the law, including arrests for driving on a suspended license. In 2012, both were arrested after destroying each other’s electronics in a heated dispute.
Fans React With Sympathy And Confusion
Online, fans of the MTV show expressed both heartbreak and disbelief over the tragedy. Many offered condolences while others speculated on the truth behind the funeral debacle.
“She was grieving. Why would they shut her out?” one commenter asked. Another defended Weston Sr., saying, “If she was late, she can’t expect them to pause a funeral.”
Regardless of the timeline, the public fallout has only deepened the pain surrounding Weston Jr.’s untimely death.
Final Thoughts: A Family Torn Apart
What should have been a united moment of mourning has become a source of public conflict. Whitney Purvis, struggling with overwhelming grief, has now been forced into the spotlight again—this time not by reality TV, but by a devastating family tragedy.
Despite a fractured past, the one thing both parents seem to agree on is that Weston Jr. was deeply loved and taken far too soon.
As Whitney posted in a final message to her late son: “Rest in Peace, my baby Weston. I love you forever, precious.”
The nation mourns with her.