- Ari Nagel, 50, has fathered 176 children globally and plans to stop donating sperm by age 50 due to age-related health concerns.
- He stays in contact with many of his children and keeps detailed records, though he hasnโt met 34 of them yet.
- Public reaction is mixed, with some praising his generosity and others raising ethical and emotional concerns.
Just days before Fatherโs Day, 50-year-old Ari Nagel, a college math professor from Brooklyn, celebrated the birth of his 176th child. Known to some as โThe Sperminator,โ Nagel has become a household name in the world of unconventional fatherhood, building a legacy that spans across nearly every continent.
And though heโs not slowing down just yet, Nagel has announced he will retire as a donor by the time he turns 50.
โIโll stop when Iโm 50,โ he said candidly. โI could keep going physically, but I donโt want to take the chance of passing on issues associated with older dads, like autism. Iโve got to be responsible.โ
His latest child was born in Connecticut, adding another pin to the map of his ever-growing global family. Currently, ten more women are pregnant with his childrenโlocated in the U.S., Canada, Africa, Asia, and Europe. Some are just weeks away from giving birth, while others are expecting later this summer.
A Growing Family That Spans the Globe
What started as a charitable impulse has turned into a personal mission. Eight years ago, Nagel began donating sperm to women who needed help starting a family. At first, it was just once or twice a month. Now, itโs weeklyโand sometimes even more frequent than that.
The numbers are staggering: 165 children born, ten more on the way, and likely more before he reaches his self-imposed retirement age. Nagel says heโs proud of the role heโs played in helping others become parents, but it hasnโt been without personal sacrifices.
He keeps meticulous records. In his office, thereโs a spreadsheet with each childโs name, birthday, address, and contact information. Alongside it is a wall of photographsโa visual reminder of the hundreds of lives heโs touched. He makes a genuine effort to stay in contact, particularly with the families close to home in New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut.
โBeing involved brings me joy,โ he said. โEven if I canโt be there every day, I want my kids to know I care.โ
Not every family wants him in the picture, though. Some mothers choose to raise their children alone, without input or contact from Nagel. Still, he offers the option to be involved, knowing many parents change their minds once children start asking questions.
โI always tell them the door is open. A lot of moms reach out when their kids want to know who I am. I respect whatever decision they make.โ
Fatherhood Without the Romance
For all the children heโs helped bring into the world, Nagel hasnโt had much luck in the love department.
โIโm on dating apps, but letโs be realโhow many women want to date a guy with 165 kids and ten women pregnant at the same time?โ he said with a self-deprecating laugh. โAlso, Iโm not rich. That probably doesnโt help.โ
Despite his growing family, Nagelโs personal finances havenโt benefited from his role as a sperm donor. He donates for free and covers much of the cost himself. Itโs not about money, he saysโitโs about helping people.
Still, that altruism comes at a price. A traditional relationship, marriage, or even just dating is nearly impossible under the circumstances. And itโs not lost on him.
โI wouldnโt say Iโm lonely,โ he said. โBut sure, sometimes it would be nice to share my life with someone.โ
The Publicโs Mixed Reaction
Nagelโs story has stirred up strong reactions online and in the media. Some applaud his selflessness, praising his efforts to help womenโparticularly single mothers and same-sex couplesโachieve their dreams of parenthood. For many, heโs seen as a modern-day fertility hero.
โI couldnโt have had my son without him,โ said one mother from New Jersey who now has a three-year-old daughter thanks to Nagel. โHe didnโt ask for anything in return, not even his name on the birth certificate.โ
Others, however, view the situation with skepticism or even outrage.
โHeโs playing God,โ one critic wrote on social media. โThese kids deserve more than just biology. What about emotional support? What about responsibility?โ
There are concerns about the long-term effects on the children, the potential for unintentional incest among siblings, and the ethical line between generosity and recklessness. Some believe there should be legal limits on how many children one donor can father.
But Nagel remains calm in the face of controversy.
โIโve thought about all of it. I understand the concerns. But I do my best to stay connected and to be there when Iโm wanted,โ he said. โIโve had some amazing relationships with my kids. I wouldnโt trade that for anything.โ
Planning for the EndโSort Of
โMy inbox is full every day. Some women are desperate. Theyโve been rejected by clinics, canโt afford IVF, or just want a known donor,โ he explained. โItโs hard to say no when I know I can help.โ
Heโs also aware that he still hasnโt met 34 of his children. One of his personal goals before retiring is to close that gap and establish some form of connection with each one.
โTheyโre all part of me,โ he said. โI want to be a better dad to all 175 of them.โ
That numberโ175โmay seem absurd to most people. But for Nagel, itโs a legacy of love, commitment, and giving.