- Elon Musk’s relationship with Amber Heard was passionate but deeply turbulent, marked by jealousy and emotional turmoil.
- The breakup left Elon emotionally devastated, affecting his focus during major Tesla events.
- Despite ongoing on-and-off contact, their final split in Brazil ended the relationship permanently, leaving lasting scars.
When people picture Elon Musk, they think of rockets, electric cars, and billion-dollar ventures. But behind the scenes, even the world’s richest man isn’t immune to heartbreak. His short-lived but intense romance with actress Amber Heard left him emotionally shattered—and friends say he was never quite the same.
What started as a passionate, whirlwind affair turned into a deeply painful chapter in Elon’s life. Now, newly revealed details shed light on just how badly Amber broke his heart.
A Romance That Started in the Shadows
Amber Heard and Elon Musk began seeing each other in 2016, not long after Amber filed for divorce from Johnny Depp. By that time, her legal battle with Johnny was already turning ugly, but Elon stepped into her life quietly—first as a friend, then as something more.
Though they kept their relationship private at first, insiders now say Elon was visiting Amber regularly, often late at night. A concierge from her Los Angeles apartment later testified that Elon already had a key fob to the building and came by frequently while Johnny was away.
At first, it seemed like a breath of fresh air for both. Amber surprised Elon for his birthday by showing up at the Tesla factory, hiding in the back of one of his cars with a bouquet of wildflowers. To outsiders, it looked like a quirky, romantic story—two successful people finding comfort in each other after past turmoil.
But what no one realized then was just how deep Elon had already fallen.
A Billionaire Smitten, Then Sidelined
As Amber prepared to shoot Aquaman in Australia, Elon followed. He rented her a luxurious home while she worked on set. But being far from his business empire caused concern. Tesla and SpaceX execs noticed something strange: Elon was no longer the focused, tireless leader they were used to.
“He was distracted,” said one insider. “He was sleep-deprived, constantly preoccupied with her. It was like nothing else mattered.”
Another source, frustrated by his absence, went even further: “She did more to slow down electric cars than the CEO of Exxon Mobil.”
Behind closed doors, the romance was messy. Friends described explosive arguments and sleepless nights. Amber seemed to draw out the most fragile parts of Elon—his vulnerability, his craving for love, and, ultimately, his emotional downfall.
“Brutal”: Elon Admits the Pain
Their relationship came to a sudden halt a few months later. Elon was in the middle of a major media appearance, doing a Rolling Stone interview, when the truth slipped out. He excused himself from the conversation, stepped out to speak with his chief of staff, then returned visibly shaken.
Moments later, he confessed: he and Amber had just broken up. He was heartbroken.
“I was really in love, and it hurt bad,” he told the reporter.
The timing couldn’t have been worse. Just the night before, he had launched the Tesla Model 3—a historic moment for the company. But Elon admitted that behind the confident stage presence was a man barely holding it together.
“I’ve been in severe emotional pain for the last few weeks,” he said. “Severe. It took every ounce of will to be able to do the Model 3 event and not look like the most depressed guy around.”
He described feeling morbid and numb during the launch. To get through it, he drank Red Bulls and surrounded himself with positive people, forcing himself to smile.
“I have all these people depending on me,” he told himself. “All right. Do it.”
But inside, he was crumbling.
On-and-Off Torture
After the breakup, the pain didn’t stop. Elon and Amber continued to see each other on and off throughout the rest of 2017. Each time they reconnected, friends hoped maybe they’d make it work. But it always ended the same way—tears, accusations, and emotional exhaustion.
Amber’s friends say she painted Elon as controlling and jealous. She claimed he bugged her car, placed cameras in her home, and tracked her whereabouts. But not everyone believed her. One friend rolled their eyes and said, “That’s exactly what she said about Johnny. How is no one seeing this pattern?”
For Elon, the constant back-and-forth left him confused and emotionally drained. According to his brother Kimbal, Amber had a way of twisting reality. “She’s a brilliant actress,” he said. “She’d say things that made you stop and think, ‘Wait, maybe she’s right’—but she wasn’t.”
The End in Brazil: Final Blow to a Shattered Heart
The final chapter of their romance played out in Brazil. During a December 2017 trip to Rio de Janeiro, things imploded.
Amber accused Elon of taking her passport. She locked herself in their hotel room and began screaming that she feared he would hurt her. Hotel staff and family members rushed in to calm her down. Her passport, it turned out, was in her own bag. No one had touched it.
That fight ended the relationship for good. Even Elon couldn’t ignore the chaos anymore.
Still, in the days that followed, Amber texted her agent in despair. “Dealing with breakup. I hate when things go public. See I’m so sad.”
Her agent, Christian Carino, didn’t hold back. “You weren’t in love with him,” he replied. “You told me a thousand times he was just filling space. Why are you sad if you never loved him?”
Amber didn’t defend herself. Instead, she asked Christian to pass along a letter to Johnny Depp—one expressing love and regret.
“God, I miss him,” she wrote.
And just like that, Elon was left behind—a billionaire left emotionally bankrupt by someone who never truly returned his feelings.
The Man Who Couldn’t Be Fixed
To this day, Elon Musk has never spoken in detail about what happened between him and Amber. But those who know him say the relationship left a permanent scar.
For a man known for building rockets and changing industries, it’s love that brought him to his knees. He may have launched satellites and sent cars into space, but when it came to Amber Heard, Elon Musk was just another man who fell too hard, too fast—and paid the price.
In the end, all his money, brilliance, and power couldn’t shield him from a broken heart.



