Matt and Amani Jlassi, stars of 90 Day Fiancé season 11, have revealed a surprising secret to their strong marriage. It’s not just romance that’s making their relationship better—it’s a throuple! Their connection with Any Aguirre is enhancing their 10-year marriage. They say that being in a throuple brings them closer. It’s not what most people expect, but it works for them.
A throuple that strengthens their marriage
Matt and Amani believe that having Any in their relationship is helping their marriage. “It’s always someone to love, reminding you to love,” Matt said. Whenever one of them gets upset, they look to the other partners. They see love around them, and that helps them calm down. Matt says it pulls them back into a loving environment. “You fight less,” he added. It’s a simple way to prevent arguments from escalating. Amani agrees that the throuple makes their bond stronger. She says that one person always steps in as a mediator, helping to smooth things over. “Arguments work better when you’re in a throuple,” she said. Their relationship is healthier because they address issues right away and focus on solutions.
Fighting less, loving more
The dynamic of their throuple helps them handle disagreements with less stress. When conflict arises, they deal with it calmly. Amani shared that communication is the key. “It’s a lot of communication and openness,” she explained. This level of transparency makes it easier to resolve problems. They work through their challenges together, learning how to handle them better each time.
Parenting made easier with a third
For Amani, having Any around also makes parenting their two daughters easier. “It’s actually easier to parent having a third,” she said. They get so much help from her, which makes the load lighter. Raising children can be overwhelming, but Any is there to support them. Amani and Matt share two daughters, aged 4 and 7. They are busy, but the throuple makes everything run smoother. With Any’s assistance, the couple can balance their family life more effectively. It’s not just about love; it’s about teamwork and support.
Romance is back in the relationship
Bringing Any into their lives has also brought a fresh spark into their marriage. “The romance is back,” Amani said. The throuple dynamic has allowed her and Matt to rediscover their own relationship. They’ve grown closer through this experience. It’s given them a chance to reconnect. Even though it’s a non-traditional relationship, it’s making their bond stronger. “We’re getting closer together even more,” Amani added. It’s a unique situation, but it’s strengthening their love in ways they never expected. For them, romance is not just about the two of them—it’s about all three partners, growing together.
Divorce and sacrifices for love
However, their journey isn’t without challenges. Bringing Any into their relationship means making sacrifices. One of the biggest hurdles is the legal side. They’ll need to legally divorce so Any can join them in the U.S. on a K-1 visa. Amani admitted that a year ago, she wouldn’t have thought twice about it. “If you asked us a year ago, I would’ve said, ‘You’re out of your mind!’” she said. But as they grew closer to Any, the idea of divorce became inevitable. “It just became the one thing you have to do,” Amani explained. They realized that love requires sacrifice. It’s a tough decision, but it’s one they’re ready to make for their future together.
Battling social taboos
Along with the legal challenges, Matt and Amani also face criticism from the public. Polyamorous relationships are still seen as taboo by many. Amani pointed out the double standards in society. “How is all the other types of love accepted, like Sister Wives?” she asked. “But for us, it’s not OK?” She doesn’t understand why their love is judged differently. She urged people to think before sending hate online. “If you find the urge to go online and say nasty things, read what you type before you send it,” she said. For them, love is love, no matter the number of people involved. They don’t let the negativity affect them. The only opinions that matter to them are those of their daughters.
Family comes first
Matt and Amani’s daughters have no problem with their family’s dynamic. “Kids don’t understand labels, but they understand love,” Amani shared. Her children see Any as someone who cares about their parents. The love is clear, and the kids are accepting of it. It helps that Any has a daughter close in age to Matt and Amani’s kids. “Our priorities align and that’s what makes us work,” Amani said. Their family values match, and that’s what makes the throuple work so well. It’s not just about the relationship between the three adults—it’s about creating a loving environment for their children.
New episodes of 90 Day Fiancé
Matt and Amani continue to share their journey on 90 Day Fiancé. New episodes air every Sunday on TLC. The couple is breaking stereotypes and showing that love doesn’t need to fit into a traditional box. Their throuple dynamic may not be for everyone, but it’s working for them. They’ve found happiness in a unique way, and they’re proud of it. Their story is one of love, sacrifice, and acceptance, and it’s just beginning.
