Sasha Skochilenko and Sofya Subbotina, a couple from Russia, are looking forward to getting married in Germany, where same-sex marriages are recognized. Skochilenko, an artist and musician, was previously jailed in Russia for speaking out against the country’s war in Ukraine. Subbotina campaigned for her release and supported her during her imprisonment. In Russia, laws banning same-sex weddings have been in place for over a decade, making their marriage plans impossible in their home country.
Skochilenko was arrested in St. Petersburg in 2022 for actions criticizing Russia’s military involvement in Ukraine. Subbotina visited her regularly in jail, providing her with essential items and support. The couple faced challenges due to laws prohibiting LGBTQ+ activities in Russia, driven by the government’s promotion of “traditional values.” Despite the difficulties, they remained open about their relationship, considering it a form of activism.
Skochilenko was sentenced to seven years in prison, prompting a period of despair and hardship. However, a turn of events led to her being transferred to Moscow and eventually released in a prisoner swap in Germany. Upon their reunion, Skochilenko and Subbotina have been enjoying their freedom and the ability to openly express their love in public without fear, something they couldn’t do in Russia.
The couple is currently residing in Koblenz, Germany, but they plan to explore other cities in the country before deciding on a permanent place to live. Skochilenko aims to resume her art career and seek treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder, while Subbotina, a nurse and pharmacist, hopes to work in the human rights sector and assist political prisoners back in Russia.
Although their departure from Russia was unexpected, Skochilenko and Subbotina are embracing their new life together in Germany. They express happiness and relief at being able to start anew in a country where their love is accepted and celebrated.
